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  • in reply to: Gene and Nicole #19278

    Hello, again my fellow pilots. I woke up this morning saddened to read such turmoil among us, myself being the subject. I am in tears seeing what is going on and I would like nothing more than to work towards reconciliation.

     

    I am complying with the requests made by the board and have addressed the allegations that resulted in my membership ban. The first letter that I received from the board asked me to cease and desist from (accused) actions/activities, which I have addressed in my first post. The second letter I received from the board was my 30 day ban letter. The 30 day ban letter stated that a 30 day ban was being enforced due to my accused “disregard of our [board] specific requests to keep your horses off of CSS property and your dog under control.” My 1 year ban letter states that the Board is instituting a 1 year suspension of my membership and reads ” you both continue to violate the rules by entering CSS property multiple times since you were notified of the suspension, as recently as today. Your dogs have also been on property on at least four occasions since the suspension began and you have refused to keep them on a leash to prevent them from entering the property.” The 30 day ban letter does not have a date listed in text for when the 30 day suspension ended and instead reads that “the ban will last for one month from the date you receive the letter”. The letter was hand delivered by a Board member.

     

    Board members are now writing in the forum, accusing me of intimidating members, making members feel “unsafe,” that I “terrify” people, that I cause people to fear for their life, and so on. This is heartbreaking. The videos and comments posted by board members accusing me of harassment and abuse does not feel like fair treatment. These new accusations have never been addressed in any notices that I have received from the board. If this content is not noted in any notices I received from the board or pertaining to my ban, why is it being posted publicly now by board members?

     

    Board members, I am trying my best and I would like to work together to resolve these matters. Even if I am not favored by Board members, shouldn’t I still be entitled to fair proceedings and impartial treatment by the Board. Board member’s friendships with other members and/or preference in ride services should not by be a factor in this matter.

     

    The video with Sandy in it is over a year old. If this content was felt to be pertinent and if I was allegedly such a threat, why was this not addressed with me previously? Why was I not notified by the board? I do not wish Sandy, Dale or anyone for that matter, any harm, emotionally or physically. I have never threatened Sandy’s well being and she has always been welcomed to use the road. Our businesses can operate and co-exist peacefully. If Sandy, Dale or any members expressed to you in the past that they felt threatened or harassed, these matters should have been addressed with me by the board at that time. I should have been informed verbally and in writing as well as allowed to respond.

     

    I would like to mend relationships and move in a positive direction. I would like to resolve our differences and enjoy AJX together, as we have so many times before. I do not harbor resentment for anyone. I have so much gratitude for those who show their support and concern for Nicole and I. We are devastated by this situation.

    Gene and Nicole

    in reply to: Gene and Nicole #19254

    Hello everyone, it is important for me to provide some additional context on the videos that were posted. These videos portray only a portion of these events, leaving out the full story. As we all know, there are always two sides to every story. Yet these video clips seem to begin and to cut off to my disadvantage. It feels to me as though it is an attempt to portray me in a dark light and diminish my character. I do not understand why these clips (fractions of videos), one from over a years ago, are being posted if these events do not pertain to the ban. I am putting in my best and honest effort to truly listen to the concerns that are being voiced, self reflect and work to resolve this together. I love our community here, Andy Jackson holds such a special place in my heart and means so much to me. I sincerely apologize to the club members who I have upset in the past and would like nothing more than to find an amicable solution.

     

    The first video: this individual had just been to my trailer at the ranch property. I had stopped him to let him know that this was private property and that he needed to turn around and head back to the LZ. The individual in the video argued with me and proceeded up to the pond in his vehicle at full speed, sliding and burning tires and kicking up rocks. When he came back down the hill, Nicole stopped him and I was not outside at the time. He approached Nicole and pushed her. Men should never put their hands on a woman. The video does not show any of the above and begins when I approach him after this altercation with Nicole. I was, of course, upset about the events that had just transpired prior to filming. I am not proud of my choice of words and I can admit my wrong behavior in that and sincerely apologize. If you watch the video closely, you can see that I never hit him. He does, however, hit me a few times. That afternoon I had a massive heart attack.

     

    Please note: Having folks enter into the area we formerly resided at was an issue over the years during the time that we lived there. As some of you know, we previously had someone hike past our trailer one evening, was spooked by my dog and this person hit our dog so hard that it caused permanent brain damage that ultimately led to my dog’s death. I posted signs and we did our best to keep folks out of this private property area. Just before this incident, someone had ripped apart the private property signs.

     

     

    Sandy video: Nicole and I have invested ourselves greatly into our business and have always tried our best to operate in a fair manner. In this clip, what is not recorded, is that prior to filming, I had received a call to pick up a pilot at the LZ. I was at my trailer with my daughter who had just come into town. We rode quickly down to the LZ for pick up and upon arrival, Sandy was loading them. I did not see that as a fair move. Sandy and Dale invested in UTVs while I was out of commission following my heart attack and we have had our ups and downs, but I would like to work together on finding a way to resolve our differences. I apologize for my behavior that day.

     

    I am truly sorry if I have created any trouble for the club officials. I realize this is a volunteer position and dealing with this cannot be easy. I feel that we share the same dedication in making Andy Jackson a place of enjoyment for everyone. It has been my passion and a privilege to be here for over 20 years. During this time, I have always been the go to person for repairing roads with heavy equipment after storms and rough conditions, I have taken part in building/projects/water pipes, caring for the horses, at night I watch for theft/suspicious activity and much more. I understand that it is a privilege to be a part of our community and I have always enjoyed living here and being a part of AJ. In the videos, I ask you to please consider where my passion and my frustration came from. AJ is more than a flightpark to me and that is something that can be valuable for us all.

     

    Owen has been able to find a resolution for his horses. They will move into their new home next week and will no longer be an issue. Caring for the horses was part of a deal that was made for us to live on the ranch. Although as caretakers, we have built a bond with them over the past decade, we understand the concerns that arose and feel they will be happy at their new home. I have the utmost respect for Owen, he has a tremendous heart and is one hell of a man!

     

    I assure the club, I will do my best to keep the dogs off the property. With the recent move to a nearby property, amongst other things, I’ve had a lot on my plate. It’s a hardship considering the fact that we are in a temporary place and do not have fencing. We will continue to leash the dogs. Please understand that Max was raised on the LZ. If they make their way to the LZ, it’s only because that’s where they have met friendly humans in the past.

     

    This situation has inflicted an extreme financial hardship on us that we hope can be resolved quickly. We consider you all to be our friends. Thank you for your time in reading this,

     

    Gene and Nicole